Now that this title has gotten your attention, you ever wonder why some people are mean or grumpy? You ever notice how you can be talking with them and they give you a nasty attitude? You may spend hours trying to figure out what you did or is it something about you to be treated this way and then you allow yourself to consume this energy from them. Energy never dies, it travels. Positive energy can travel or negative energy can travel in you. If someone is in a bad mood it can affect you as well, allowing you to mimic their actions. People may be mean because of things they have going on. maybe they are going through a divorce, maybe they have annoying kids, maybe they feel they can’t do things right in life. (You never know) I remember once I had this manager who always seemed upset and stubborn, basically like a sarcastic- snobby- smart ass. I would wonder how can someone be so mean. He randomly mentioned he can’t remember the last time he had good sleep. After hearing this, I put the clues together and realized his negative attitude came from him not taking care of himself. When you do not get enough sleep you can start your day off wrong and blow people off, affecting their mood because you were not pleasant.
Another situation was that a person I know was always grumpy and being snappy. During a random conversation, they mentioned they needed a laxative or a good bowel movement. (BINGO! That is their reason. They are constipated and feeling uncomfortable due to not releasing the stored food lol) So whenever people are rude to you for no apparent reason you have to stop to think, maybe they have issues in their personal life and are upset at the world. If you are someone not always happy or feeling well, please try to be nice to others because it does not give you a reason to take it out on them; that is how so many bad things happen in the world today due to negative energy from others.